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Dating Stories #2

Updated: May 6, 2025

Considering what I can think about on top of my head, dating stories are what comes to mind the most... This next one has to be about my first boyfriend, Chris. Here is a song that could describe how I feel at the end.



To be honest, I wasn’t allowed to date in high school, but that only made me wanted to date… as a typical Asian parents, they didn’t want you to date in high schools and now in your mid20s, they put that as a “priority”, but that’s a story for another time…

Chris was a guy I have met in National Lifeguard course outside of school. Although he attended the same high school as me, he was a year older than me. I was pretty average and it actually took me 3 tries to pass through that course…. Tbh I think I wasn’t taking it too seriously at the time :P we ended up spending summers together even after the classes were over, it was the summer of Pokémon go, and me, him and that group played a lot of it together! We would also ended up calling each other past midnight and played online games together. I guess in the midst of hanging out, I figured I liked him as more than a friend, which is when I started to lowkey pursue him. We eventually were together, meanwhile I was in g12, and he went to first year uni at UofT… as I didn’t know how to drive yet then, neither did he, we would only see each other on the off chance,  at the time I didn’t think much about it,, but he asked me once if he could sleepover at a friend of his and of course at the time I didn’t think much about it, but that is until he broke it off with me over a letter from him… I was literally heartbroken and desperated but life had to go on, so I was fine for awhile (mostly). Sidenote: I have found a whole diary and the letter wrote by him at the time, so it brought back some memories. Anyway, after 3 months later, he posted a picture that he was together with some other girl, and I found out that girl is whom he “sleepover” at because his roommate was snoring. I just wanted to laugh at the naiveness and how inexperienced I was… That was a fun story and it truly taught me to not trust with wholehearted, Thanks a lot Chris😶

 
 
 

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